Any good parent wants their kids to stay out of trouble, do well in school, and go on to do awesome things as adults.
And while there isn’t a set recipe for raising successful children, you just need to more than a parent Sometimes in growing age of 6 to 18 they need you to be nice to them such as a friend with them they can share every good or bad part of life and only then you can save their future .
7 Most Important points :
1 . Avoid harsh discipline
Parents Should never hit their child ,under any circumstances ” children who hit , scold and slapped by parents are more aggressive and more prone to fight with other children ” They are more likely to be bullied and use aggression to solve dispute with others.
Most importantly Don’t just tell your child what you want them to do , show them. we humans are special species because we learn by imitation .we are programmed to copy other’s actions to understand them and to incorporate them into our own .
From childhood they use to learn from parents by watching them doing everything ,so be the person you want your child to be .
There is no such things as love your child too much loving them cannot spoil them , but sometimes too loving feel them free to do anything they wants to do ” it is simply not possible to spoil a child with love ,”loving your child as simple as giving them hugs,spending time with them and listening to their issues seriously .
4. Set rules
If you can’t handle your child behavior when he is young ,perhaps he will have hard time to learning how to manage himself when he is young and you aren’t with him ,to teach them how to manage in the world give them positive experiences . they will have ability to experience the positive experiences themselves and offer them to others.
5. Treat your child with respect
“The best way to get respectful treatment from your child is to treat him respectfully,”you should give your child the same courtesies you would give to anyone else .speak to him/her politely , Respect his opinion ,pay attention when he/she is speaking to you,treat kindly . children treat others the way their parents treat them. your relationship with your child is the foundation for her/his relationship with others.